-girls talking about their ex's constantly. (high school mentality, come on we are out of high school now, time to grow up) end result: we don't really hang out, I will avoid, not because I don't like the person, I'm just too far removed from high school antics to care. They'll see me as someone who is too old in how I live and go about my life. lol
- Women talking about how men do not want to have a meaningful relationship anymore. (the jaded 20 something who is getting closer or at 30 and is still single) (or the girl who hates all men except you and doesn't trust anyone else except you, but still hates men). (we end up becoming really good friends)
-fashionistas. I don't really care what you wear, but when your life revolves around clothes and the only reason you make money for example, is to buy more clothes. I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. Who wants to be with someone whose real love is clothes. And I'm not a partier. (they become acquiantances)
-must be laid back or else and our personalities must fit or else its the Titanic. (girlfriend)
- No go on the political activist. I don't want to hear how bad I am for buying a coffee from Starbucks every waking moment. I know they screw over people in third world countries, stop preaching to the choir so to speak. Just be reasonable. (we end up becoming really good friends)
- be real, not fake, be who you are, not something you feel you have to be.
