Itsy Bitsy wrote:
I sheepishly ask if you meant it to be offensive
Playing it down, are ya? and you go on a rant about all sorts of negative aspects of my personality.
Just calling it as I see it I obviously have trust issues
When someone gets screwed over a lot or even one time in a horrible horrible manner, it's bound to happen. So that's understandable. I'm certain we've all been there.and I've expressed before
No offense but I don't keep up with every post you make on every forum. So if you've expressed it somewhere before now, I didn't know about it. BUT now that I do know it I'll try to be gentle with my teasing ways toward you... maybe that I often have paranoid feelings about people not liking me.
Who cares if I don't like you? You and I are not, will not ever be nor have ever been personal friends. But instead of accepting that and saying, no I was just joking, you go make it worse.
I made it worse? Hun you replied to everything I put out there and more than likely will reply to this too. I think we're both to blame for dragging out this nonsense. I have no issue with having a good laugh and I have no issue being playfully teased (i.e. short jokes from Irish and schmoo),
Don't play coy Itsy, you and I both know men teasing women is done and meant in a different manner than women teasing each other. but if something looks like passive agressive "teasing" I freeze up and start wondering what they meant by it. Now before you respond with more negative expressions towards me about how uptight, sensitive or paranoid I am (yeah I've admitted that),
Not that anyone cares but imo.. uptight people are sometimes the more responsible ones, sensitive is sweet. Paranoid... just a little paranoia is ammusing and keeps a body on their toes. However, all this Tasha doesn't like me bit (even after I said I do) is just sad (sorry just being honest). If you don't want to socialize with me, that's fine... stop replying. If you do want to socialize, then we both need to shut the f*ck about all this once and for all. consider the fact that I'm just going to take another rant as a good reason to believe that you can't effing stand me.
As I said, you keep replying. And again if I didn't like you, I'd flat out say it. I think I've made it obvious to you and everyone reading that I'm never at a loss for words, opinions or attitude.Just as you can't stand most women... as you've made very clear. Ha! I too obviously have issues with women.
Among other things.I've never had this issue with a man.
That's because men are simple in the sense that they have strong sexual urges. It tends to over ride their better judgement sometimes. We both know a straight man will put up with a lot til he finds you, me or any woman useless. Granted I'm bisexual but I'm also a woman so I know the ins and outs, the excuses, the games, etc... so I don't have to, want to or need to put up all this typical female nonsense. Sexual urges or not I don't see why a man would put up with such fussing but they do, they will and God love 'em for doing so. [/DIV]