Lise wrote:
Someone recently asked me if I would know the signs of a guy cheating. I.... well, I'm not sure if I would know.
I bet if he was cheating he would probably:
a) leave the house at different hours of the day and not come back till very, very late
b) constantly talking about a certain someone ALL THE TIME and comparing her to you
c) don't seem really interested in doing stuff with you
This friend says her brother is cheating on not one but 3 different girls in different countries! Can you believe that?
What do you think are obvious signs? This goes for girls too, y'know. It's a two-way street. ___________________________________________________
With regards to your three statements, (a) sounds logical.. he/she would need time to spend with their mister / mistress... hey, what do you call a guy 'mistress', 'mister'?
(b) doesn't seem logical as he/she would know that by making ANY comparison of the other person to their spouse then that would give the spouse a clue that he/she has feelings for the other person.
(c) yes, I don't believe that the spouse would like to spend time with his/her spouse any longer. He/she would prefer spending all their spare time with the person they're having an affair with.