So... Whats for lunch?

[purelife]

I won't go into detail about my sex life....but I can assure you that there is nothing to be jeolous about, I think.

  Sex isn't always on my mind, quite honestly.  How about you, Some chick?  

[Some Chick]

The only sex life I have is the one I entertain my SELF with.  Unless I want to do the whole booty call thing, which I prefer not to.

  And I do think about sex a fair ammount.  Probably almost as much as a guy.

[purelife]

I wonder if it's guys who think about sex more or the ladies?

[Sportsdude]

yeah but it sucks when everyone talks about it and you have no idea how to stay in the conversation. For example I'm doing a bunch of British lit right now on love. I have no idea what love is. Never even experienced any of it. You name it I've haven't experienced it. Last time I even had a friend that was a girl was in elementary school and she moved back to england. This subject hurts me.  

[purelife]

I'm sorry SD.  I won't talk about it.  I feel bad and sad now....

[Some Chick]

Love...  I remember that.  I recall it was fun for awhile.

[purelife]

I also think that it takes a long time to really know what "love" is even if you have been in a few relationships.  Sometimes, I'm not really sure if I'm really in love or I just care for the person.  It's rather weird.

[Some Chick]

I sometimes think that what I've had in the past might just be it for me.  Maybe that's all I get!

  That would suck.  It's nice to have someone that gives a shit if you're sick.  I miss being looked after when I have a cold.

[Sportsdude]

I'm so green when it comes to love that the song that represents me a lot is the U2 song "baby face".

  Hell look at me. Couldn't watch the 40 year old virgin because that basically is a refection of me. Minus the toys and video games. 20 and never even kissed a girl. I'm a disgrace to mankind.  

[Some Chick]

Well there must be a reason.  You're either selective, or the right one to bother kissing hasn't come around.

  I've kissed a lot of toads.  They stayed toads.

  [img height=175 src="vny!://www-astro.physics.ox.ac.uk/~erik/toad/images/bufo.marinus.hand.jpeg" width=279]  <<< My last quasi boyfriend.

[purelife]

SD, you're not a disgrace to mankind.  I didn't even kiss until very late in my teen years as well, just 3 years under you.  I believe that everything happens for a reason, well, maybe not everything, but if it's meant to be, it's meant to be sort of thing.  I hope that I make some sense.  I suck at giving out advice but I like to listen.  

  My problem is allowing someone to care for me because I'm so independent.  I can take care of myself financially and health wise.  I have to learn to let someone say, "let me take care of you."  

[Some Chick]

I'm so sick of looking after everyone else.  All I want is someone to look after me once in awhile.  Not financially, I don't mean or need that.  I just want a guy that ... gets it.

  My problem lately is that I've cared more than the guys that are just looking for a f*ck buddy and walking away has been very difficult.  I'm still wickedly attracted to one of them, and I have to stay completely away or I'll be getting naked with him and then my feelings will be hurt.

[Sportsdude]

   
 I sort of dependent. I'm fine left alone but I need to confide with someone. I swear the more I talk the more I sound like a girl. I've got issues it seems. Have you ever met someone who can't go to a movie that involves some type of girlfriend because he'll become depressed afterwards? well thats me.  

[purelife]

I've never been in the situation of having a f*ck buddy or needing one but I know that I would never go to that route because sex, to me, is an extremely personal and spritual thing.  I wouldn't be doing it with someone that I didn't intend to have a long-term relationship with.  Once sex is involved, the relationship goes to a personal level where someone could get hurt.

  Sportsdude, I know that you probably don't want to hear this, but I'm sure that the time will come.  Change can just take a while.

[Some Chick]

It could be worse.

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