I'm not judging, it's just a mental note of how I remember names along with childhood experiences of how friends called themselves. Everyone was ethnicized. Only people my age do this from where I live, people 5 years younger then me don't or don't even have this outlook. I've explained this before but nobody seems to want to believe me, because it's hard to believe, which is fine. Its hard to believe now that growing up "italians" and "indians" just for an example, hung out together and called themselves "the italians" or "the city kids". They weren't americans they were "italian-americans". the double hyphenation has stuck with me.