I remember my last meal very well.............a small tossed salad with Ranch dressing, and a small tenderized steak, well done. To the best of my knowledge both the salad and meat were fresh, as I had bought them that day on the way home from work. So I honestly don't know what triggered it. And I think a lack of natural resistance to illness has prolonged the misery.
I hear what you're saying, P.C., but the fact of the matter is there is almost no help available for the lady, and no space available in a reliable rest home for respite. I can't imagine putting her in any old substandard space with poor care. She doesn't deserve that.