Wow, this thread turned out to be about men and women doing chores and such and then, relationship counselling. I tried to read pages 2 and 3 and then, completely passed page 4. Ok, let's see what I remember.
Lil Me, yeah, agree. Taking out the garbage is okay for me to do, but for some odd reason, I prefer my guy to do it. And he has been taking the garbage since I've met him. At the odd times, I'd take it out. One day, I found about 3-5 bags of garbage outside our balcony! OMG, I bloody almost screamed! This has got to be the lazy man's way of "taking out the garbage!" He never did that again as he knows how I feel about that.
When I met my guy, he used to live on his own in a bachelor suite. He'd have all his bottles lying around, cups around, everywhere! Sometimes, I'd pick them up but most of the time, I would tell him to pick them up. Slowly, but surely, he started to get better with his things and would pick them up.
I believe that changing each other is good. It takes time. He has changed me and I have changed him as well. I know, that was really simplictic and general, but I don't want to go into details.