you found companionship PC and that's really sweet. That's what I'm trying to say but I'm really bad at it.
Most relationships in my age group are anything but, but I'm not going to dwell on those people, they aren't worth my time anyway. That's how I see the dating world. Its really easy now to tell the two different types apart but I see it all the time where the girl goes after the guy who is bad and is just looking for sex. It's frustrating! Its almost a disease on the girls part, and I have a perfect example in my cousins from Kansas City. They just haven't learned.
Companionship? What?...Do you think I'm 90 or something? I found love and mutual respect.
Stop acting like the examples of your age group are some kind of guideline. It isn't age that will assist you in finding a good relationship....it's maturity......and they're not necessarily the same thing.
Look for what you want, and you'll find it. Girls going after the bad boy is the same as boys going after the pretty girls.....that too is an equal 'disease'. You're trying to find some logic in a bunch of people doing it wrong.