It looks to me that the people who have trouble with/get burned by DV are people who have made their own mess over there and then don't want to deal with the consequences of making that mess. Then they come over here and tell us all about it, like the bratty kid who deliberately throws a brick through somebody's window, gets smacked for it, and then presents himself for milk and cookies at at his grandmother's house like a wronged angel who was smacked for no reason.
DV is what it is, and apparently has been that way for a long time. If you don't like the atmosphere there, no one is forcing anyone to stay there. If you want to be here, then why not offer up something that has nothing to do with your "oppression" by DV or how DV operates?