All I'm asking is to be the guy she wants to cry her out on. Is that so bad? Like I'm not going to dump her..... she can do the dumpin on me. I can be her knight, pick her up, make her feel better cause I'm a man... you know, I can show her how to let it out. I don't mind if she, like, want to use me..... geez, you don't know me at all. I can be sensitive to a girl's feelings. I ain't gonna treat her like those jerks who hang around her.... I'm sweet, sincere, cool but I don't get notice.
You DO sound like a nice guy Mark....and your heart sounds like it's in the right place.
I'd give some thought to why you think it's OK to 'offer yourself up' as a doormat though.
I think there'd be little satisfaction in 'getting' the girl when it's based on being used.
Maybe rethink what it is about this girl that would allow you to treat yourself with disrespect. You 'SOUND' like you're worth more than that.
*the white knight syndrome often means you're lacking something within yourself. It also paints a nice target on your heart for needy girls. Perhaps work on your confidence a little, and girls will want more from you than a stopover between guys.[/DIV]