How to get the girl?

[Mark]

How do you get the girl you like? What's a good way to get her attention without me appearing like a pervert?

[Sportsdude]

I have no idea, considering I've never had a gf. lol
But then again I've never really tried.

But if I did, I'd have to really start to get to know the person.  Talk to her a lot for about a week and then on the thursday say "hey you want to go for some coffee or something after school on friday?"  or something like that.  Make it really really easy, just talk.  Anyway that's how I'd do it.
 

[purelife]

 Hey [span style="text-decoration: line-through;"]Marik[/span].  Mark.

We hope that she's single?  It helps that she is, makes it easier for you.  May I ask where do you know this girl?  Is she in your class?  At work? In the library?  

Depending on where you're at and where she is at, I'd start with a smile and a hello.  That would be my first step.  Remember, when you do talk to her, ask her questions about herself.  Girls LOVE (with a passion) to talk about themselves.  Plus, it's a great way to get to know the girl.  Ask her questions about herself, talk about common "easy" topics like the weather or the location of where you're at. ie, school, you could talk about how so-and-so teacher is or how the subject is easy or difficult.  

I hope this helps, but do tell us more so that I can give you a more specific help than a general answer.    
   

[Marik]

 lol purelife, that's MARK, not MARIK...

Check out this site dude:
vny!://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/

Hope it helps ... lots of articles on there. Good luck!


   

[Queer Eye]

"I don't get all the women that I want...I get all the women that want me!" - David Lee Roth

  Son,

  It's not you, it's them.  Trust me - if they want you, they'll let you know.  I'm sure that Diamond Dave and Van Halen were before your time, but this should give you something to think about:

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  P.S.  Just because I'm feeling a little nostalgic right now, I'm going to throw in another gem from Diamond Dave (pun intended):

  "Trouble with dreams is, a lot of them come true.  By the time they do, you've turned into somebody else.  That's what happens with time...It's always been important to me, that my dream come true, when I wanted."

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Now go outside and get some fresh air before supper - assuming that you've finished all of your homework.  

[purelife]

hee hee...my mistake.  I thought it said Marik...

I guess that I've been thinking about you...    

[P.C.]

That's a toughy Mark.  I don't know if I missed something, but it seems we're all assuming you are in school

     Confidence without ego.  Friendliness without seduction.  Good humour without buffoonery.

Good manners still count as does sincerity.  Just some thoughts....good luck, Mark. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/froehlich/c020.gif" border=0]

[Lise]

How about opening your mouth and saying 'hi', eh? Nothing venture, nothing gain.

[Mark]

I'm still in highschool, in my senior year. She's like the hottest and most popular girl at my school. She just broke up with her boyfriend recently. A friend of mine heard from someone that she's on the rebound, looking for love. I want to be that rebound love, yeah, I know it's not gonna be permanent... a guy like me and a chick like her, we're not gonna last. All I want is to kiss her, you know, be the guy she can, like, crash to, even if it's just a little while.

  I'm not bad looking nor am I one of the popular crowd but I do hold out on my own. I'm supershy... I just wanna be loved.........is that too much to ask?

  How do you, like, approach her? She's always in her group of hens.

[49er]

Classic......all the women here are giving you advice to get to know the girl and all you want is get to second base.

[Lise]

With that kind of attitude, Mark, I think you're better off finding a hole in a wood somewhere and pinning her picture to it. Have you no respect, dude??

[P.C.]

 Classic......all the women here are giving you advice to get to know the girl and all you want is get to second base.

  I thought it was good advice.  If you can't get to first base, second base is pretty much out of the question.  [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/froehlich/c020.gif" border=0][/DIV]

[49er]

Mark figured he is getting a walk to first....(remember she's on a rebound)

[Lise]

If she has any shred of decency, she wouldn't touch "Mark" with a long pole.

  What is it with guys and getting to second base? As if he'd scored any chance with her being shy and all. Is that all you ever think about, Mark?

[P.C.]

Hmmm.....I thought that was 49'er that was looking toward 2nd base.  I thought Mark sounded like a half decent guy.  

  *tell me I'm right Mark. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/more/bigs/c008.gif" border=0]