P.C. wrote:
[div style="font-style: italic;"]How many of you have a family member that doesn't speak to you (or visa versa) ? [/div] [div style="font-style: italic;"]How long has it been going on, and how did it start ?[/div]
I haven't spoken to my sister in years, and don't expect to (hopefully) for years to come.
It's too long a story to go into here, but let's just say....
[ul][li]She's a f*cking whacko with a badly distorted sense of reality (our shared childhood in particular)[/li][li]She's personally irresponsible, especially when it comes to other people's money.
[/li][li]She's abusive, both verbally and physically[/li][li]She's still living in the mid-1960's (she never heard the closing bell)[/li][li]She expects the world to give her everything on a platter, no work required[/li][li]She's a liar, emotionally unstable, and unpredictable
[/li][li]She's the consumate "Perpetual Victim", forever and ever and ever
[/li][/ul]It started when she began casting my mom in a terrible light, as the Ultimate Horrible Mother who raised us terribly, didn't do this, didn't do that, was mean to us, etc etc etc. It's just flat-out bullshit. Completely untrue, without a shred of substance to her claims. My mom busted her butt to provide for us and did a damn good job. End of story.
If you listen to my sister's version of events compared to mine, you'd have to conclude that we were raised in different homes, on different streets, in different cities, and on different planets.
She's delusional and rewrites history to fit her agenda, which seems to be alienating everyone she's ever known. There's more, much more, but that's it in a nutshell.
Ha, top that!