We are in the process of trying to learn about this stuff, Gophie. We bought the kit thinking it would be easier than dealing with someone who doesn't know us, or what we have or what we want to do with what we have. I'm not sure this was a good idea. I thought it would be a simple process, but it's SO complicated. Well...to me anyways.
Also, after reading about the laws surrounding enforcing a legal will, I'm not sure it makes much difference to have one. Seems a judge can override your decisions, after you're dead and can't even argue his ruling, so what's the point. Of all the stupid things our judicial system is made up of, this is one of the stupidest. They make such a fuss about making sure you have a legally binding will, then proceed to do what they want with your stuff. As Lil Me would say....harumph !!!