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"Time for you to man up........"

 pardon me  for a moment i need to go burst  into  a fit of laughter from a statement like  this coming from someone like you.

excuse me ill be back later


oh yes and i did post on here before just under a different handle :P

"I for one would like to see every one get along but I know that is not going to happen Even if I wish they could. "

ha! i doubt world peace would have its start online of all places  

"Just go away as you have followed me yet again to another forum. "

I joined this board   more than year back you simpleton.  

"Our own memories of any incident tend to be flawed in that aspect. We will tend to remember our selves as better or more altruistic than what that situation might have actually been like. Basically we paint ourselves in a better light, than what someone else will see."

Certainly it is always easier to paint one self as the victim.


"A stranger who meets us for the first time is more likely to see us for what we are, they see us as we are. they tend to see us without a veil over their eyes. . Until we can learn to see through the eyes of that stranger we will remain blind and unable to see our selves as flawed this is because our own id and our own ego our possessiveness abd  selfishness gets within the way. "

 Honestly i think most people are aware of their flaws. I dont believe  any of us can completely eliminate them but they can be tamed. it's just a matter of confronting  your  demons as they say.


"It takes a true friend to tell someone of their negatives and to be willing to show them to you."
 or someone  who is just an a**hole. LOL!


 "We men do not like to have our short comings pointed out to ourselves, We dislike it even more so if it is a woman pointing them out to ourselves."

I think the same applies to women as well. People generally expect their loved ones  to always side   with them and agree with them on everything no matter what and are often offended when they   dont do as expected.

What is the saying to forgive is divine ? We should never forget the things we do or have had done to us. We should always be willing to forgive,

Perhaps one should just be willing to let negative events in their lives not loom over their thoughts constantly. some things are unforgiveable i believe but at the same time brooding over them doesn't bode well for the soul.

Ah yes that is very true!  The negative aspects of ourselves do tend to be remembered more often than not. I have concluded long ago that it is common of the human condition as it is a way for us  to essentially walk away from relationships that may be toxic to our well being. After all if  we were to so quickly forgive and forget all   a persons misdeeds then they would tend to repeat themselves continually with no solution and most of all no end. it would  almost be a world full of no repurcussions for  our words  or actions.

I feel that sometimes it is necessary for  what you described to be remembered as it can be a learning  experience for both parties involved  whether the person is on the recieving or giving end of the negativity.

For example,the person on the recieving end can learn what they possibly did to incur  anger or  disdain   and the person "dishing  out" the negativity out can learn why they were prone to  the outburst  of anger  in this incident. In situations like this I feel that  we essentially learn about ourselves and others  and can progress  in a positive manner from this if we allow ourselves to even if the relationship doesnt continue due to our less than kind displays  of emotion we can   show to each other at times.

Essentially   what i am getting at is the worst of times can be turned into a positive aspect  that we can use to better ourselves  as human beings in the future.

Respect and manners are a two way street no matter what  the relationship you have with a person is. The minute a person ceases to be mannerly with you is the time you dont extend them the same favor in return.  

Thank you little fish and  very well put !  

DDD wrote:
<DIV>LOL........</DIV>

Why am i not suprised an alchoholic illiterate couldn\'t add anything to    this  discussion besides an exclamation fitting of a rather simple minded ,borish teenage girl?

Whats the matter? expend too much mental energy trying to sloppily convince another woman to go to Vegas with you or did i just use too many big words for your liking?

"That's because men are simple in the sense that they have strong sexual urges. It tends to over ride their better judgement sometimes. We both know a straight man will put up with a lot til he finds you, me or any woman useless. Granted I'm bisexual but I'm also a woman so I know the ins and outs, the excuses, the games, etc... so I don't have to, want to or need to put up all this typical female nonsense. Sexual urges or not I don't see why a man would put up with such fussing but they do, they will and God love 'em for doing so. "

 i dont have a dog in this fight so  the rest doesnt matter with whatever is going on inbetween you two but this is poppy cock.

please dont peddle silly negative steriotypes about men   that are based off  of the ones youve known intimately

my sexual urges never over  ride my intellect or judgement and ill drop ANY woman like hot potato over ANYTHING i  reason to be even mildy annoying

well that lasted a good  hour

DDD
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« Sent to: Fatz McGuinness on: Today at 01:25:19 pm »

   

 
 
Lets be clear I said I would stop I did not say that I was not telling the truth

So once agaun f*** OFF

"Natasha wrote:
It's not bollocks. All this is started over pedo remarks.Which if I recall, RDL inicially started toward a few of the regs. They weren't started by you or D. And yes, RDL send me the PM. "None of this would have ever existed had RDL not started with all that talk to begin with... none of it."

Well  he was certainly quite the odd ball  as was obvious but  everything came as a result of  one female poster  on datw being immature   and trying to play inspector cleusseau by pinning his actions on a few others who didnt even like  the chap. Then the people who befriended her jumped in because they  had their heads firmly planted  up her  less than savoury area lets say.

It was the  same cliquish behaviour on the board that itsy saw for herself the other day  that resulted in  everything getting blown out of proportion  and innocent people being dragged ino internet drama

rdl in reality played a very small role in any of it.


"There's;a theory as to why he doesn't like you. That's it. A theory. No facts to prove it in any way what so ever. So why hang on to a theory as a just cause to go on bickering?  And if not's really over the pedo thing, then bicker about what it really is then (in private preferrably). The pedo thing is played out... big time. "

You yourself agreed with me  months ago that this supposed "theory with no facts"  is why ddd takes issue with me so  theres no point in denying whats  is blatantly  obvious to both of us for  the sake of "mending fences" with others . It is not my fault another male views me as a threat because he wants to play "internet  mac daddy" with females online. In fact it took me a while to realize why  so much negativity was being thrown my way on his behalf and when i finally did realize why  it was happening it turned out to be over the most absurd and  amusing thing. I still chuckle over the thought of it to this day.


As for the pedo thing yes its played out but  what can i do about it?(shrugs)


"AKA picking the scab. You know how directly affected I've been by so much of this. If I can forgive everyone involved and mend friendships then why can't you both? or at leastnot reply to each other's posts?"

For the most part i dont reply to his posts or any of that other little group for that matter. In fact the only time i got involved with any of it as of late  was when itsy was being picked on a few days ago.

" As well you should. But how long does it take to actually say ok I've had enough. I'll treat them as if they don't exist."

Asking someone to  prove what they say or be silent is not stirring the pot or causing trouble. im being quite polite actually rather than regressing into absurd name calling or pursuing legal action as one cou;d  when an accusation of the sort is claimed.

"I honestly do hope this is the end of all it."

i  sincerely doubt it will be

wow what they let you view on the office computer is really strict  

woah woah woah i know youre trying to play neutral here  which is fine i find the takings sides  thing to be silly but that was honestly a load of bollocks

the rdl isssue  while true was seperate and  didnt really  have much to do with  all this

you and i both know why ddd doesnt like me ( im not going to devulge why) and it isnt because of that

sure i act like a gigantic  smart ass with him but  i am justified  in my behaviour

im not upset with anyone actually   but if  they are  going to levy accusations against me they cant prove im going to to make an ass out of them

its really that simple  and now he claims he is going to stop so there is no reason to rub his  lies in his face anymore as i am not a petty individual

good all i wanted was for you to be silent and stop making slanderous remarks you couldnt  prove

now its up to you to hold to your word lke a man

Orik wrote:
"Now man up and shut the f@ck up"

from what i've heard on here from some of the newer members on ds you continually whine about every little thing   on this board with no end

a bit odd you would say soemthing like this no?