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Title: Something to think about
Post by: P.C. on Sep 28 07 09:09
OK....I know this is kind of morbid......BUT....worth giving some thought.

  What would you do if you were told you only had 6 months to live?  Are there things that you have on the 'some day' list?  What would you set up to leave behind for your kids?  What would be your priorities?
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: Lise on Sep 28 07 09:38
I would take my family on a trip, do whatever I can within the 6 months. I will make sure they are taken care of, financially and emotionally. Spend the time to let them know that I'll be OK and tell them that they are the greatest thing that ever happen to me.

  Nevermind the 6 month period, I tell them right now. Each day. That I'm proud of them and that I love them very much.
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: P.C. on Sep 28 07 09:50
Sweet Lise.  Sounds like you're already living each day to its fullest.  Good for you !!!!! [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/more/bigs/c015.gif" border=0]
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 28 07 10:35
Yeesh.  I think I would apologize to people for things that happened in the past and "make peace".
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 28 07 11:30
hmm 6 months... gosh that's a tough one.
Well that trip to Europe would happen. Albeit it wouldn't be as fun.
Go to my designated favourite places in the world list that have some kind of childhood or happy memory. Niagra Falls is the first one I can think of, went their on my birthday, best birthday ever. Cape Cod riding the bikes up the coast, D.C., Vancouver, Rocky mountains.
Happy memory places.
 
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: well on Sep 29 07 12:00
P.C. wrote:
 OK....I know this is kind of morbid......BUT....worth giving some thought.

  What would you do if you were told you only had 6 months to live?  Are there things that you have on the 'some day' list?  What would you set up to leave behind for your kids?  What would be your priorities?

  The reality is that in MOST cases you would be too sick to do anything if you are in that situation.  You would have to make peace with those who you wronged.   You may not even be able to sign any documents in that condition.
 
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: purelife on Sep 29 07 09:37
I would continue living my life for those 6 months.  I wouldn't quit my job nor change too much.  If I died tomorrow, I have already lived a life that I wanted and am happy.  
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: JJ on Sep 29 07 10:01
I first wouldn't believe any doctor who gave me 6 months to live.  But if I was getting ready to the end I wouldn't travel, too much worry for family & friends if you're ill.  I would just have as much quality family time that I could!
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: P.C. on Sep 29 07 10:07
I would spend some time writing letters for my kids....to be opened at milestones in their lives.  Write a few brief stories of some family history.  I also don't think I would tell anyone..... I would want the remaining time to be real.....not altered by guilt or pity.  (although I bounce back and forth on that decision)
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: ripper on Sep 29 07 11:13
I would tell everyone who is of some importance in my life that i love them. I would also like to tie up some loose ends. For the people that i have offended, i would humbly apologize and ask for their forgiveness. For people who have offended me, i would take a bat and beat the living daylights right outta them.
Title: Re: Something to think about
Post by: Gopher on Sep 29 07 11:25
Give away all the things that I'd otherwise leave to the same people in my will