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Title: RESP
Post by: purelife on Sep 25 07 02:03
I'm curious to know if any of you parents started an RESP on your child(ren).
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 25 07 02:04
Aw.  I was all ready to sing out "ECT" after the "RESP"!!!  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 02:06
[img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/more/bigs/c008.gif" border=0]    You're quick Lil Me.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: purelife on Sep 25 07 02:10
LOL, you can still sing. :))

  It's probably more interesting than RESP.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 25 07 03:04
Nobody I know had a college savings plan. We just take out loans. lol

[a href="vny!://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/en/hip/lld/cesg/publicsection/faqs_resp.shtml"]vny!://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/en/hip/lld/cesg/publicsection/faqs_resp.shtml[/a]
 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lise on Sep 25 07 05:24
Yes. Already done so. It's such a pain but it needs to be done.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 06:28
I never grew up in that kind of snack bracket.  The rule was....2 weeks after graduation to get a job, move out or pay room and board.  If you want to go to uni...get 2 jobs.....lol.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 25 07 07:26
I can't stop singing...  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: 49er on Sep 25 07 07:34
P.C. wrote:
I never grew up in that kind of snack bracket.  The rule was....2 weeks after graduation to get a job, move out or pay room and board.  If you want to go to uni...get 2 jobs.....lol.

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 Same here.....worked full 40 hours/week while I was going to univ.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 07:40
I don't think it was a family stance......I didn't know a soul who's parents paid for a university education.  (or bought them cars and gave them credit cards or apartments)  In their eyes, it was part of growing up and becoming independent.  Their motto was 'you always appreciated more, the things you earned'.  I suppose it's old school, but I tend to agree.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 25 07 07:42
True enough.  But at the rates that tuition is increasing, it's good to have a little bit put away.
 The Canadian gov't grant is free money...so why not?
 
   
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: 49er on Sep 25 07 07:54
In my case, my parents weren't poor enough for me to qualify for loans and I wasn't smart enough to get scholarships..........caught in the middle, so had to work!
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 08:04
True enough.  But at the rates that tuition is increasing, it's good to have a little bit put away.
The Canadian gov't grant is free money...so why not?



I agree....to a certain extent.  Tuition IS increasing.....but in relationship to even minimum wage, they have risen in stride.....all things remaining somewhat equal.  (of course living expenses have NOT been as equal and take a bite out things a little quicker)

  I think, if it's something you can do for your kids.....why not.  (I'd still hold out a little.....lol.  It's amazing how much more seriously you take your courses when you've had to work for them)  I know......it's really old fashioned thinking. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/liebe/g038.gif" border=0]
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lise on Sep 25 07 08:11
No, no... it sound idea, PC. If you want an education, you have to work for it. But having said that, I'm going to help my kids as best as I can but I'll also encourage them to find work if it suits them and their timetable.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 08:18
I think things are changing in that respect.  I always think of it as an 'American' concept.....(although I don't know that to be true from my own experiences.....it's just how I've always thought of it)

  I think the plus side to kids remaining dependant, longer....is it puts it back into perspective, that other cultures share their living spaces with 2 or 3 generations of family.  And that has to have it's benefits too.  (and I don't just mean financially)
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lise on Sep 25 07 08:22
True though too dependent is too much. Kids today, they're too dependent on their folks. Just look at Stats Canada. The number of kids staying home with mom and dad are increasing though I don't blame them. With housing prices skyrocketing, where are they going to stay?  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: P.C. on Sep 25 07 08:27
Yup.  And that's a bigger issue than tuition.  

  I guess it staves off that empty nest syndrome for parents these days.  In the old days, the idea of  turning your teens bedroom into a snooker room/bar is on hold for a few more years.  [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/more/bigs/c008.gif" border=0]
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 25 07 09:06
Maybe if you do it, they will leave home.  Kind of hard to sleep with billiard balls flying over your head.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 25 07 09:36
  Lise wrote:
True though too dependent is too much. Kids today, they're too dependent on their folks. Just look at Stats Canada. The number of kids staying home with mom and dad are increasing though I don't blame them. With housing prices skyrocketing, where are they going to stay?
 

Oh, somebody mentioning Stats Can and it wasn't me. LOL

Yeah I like to say I did my 3 years at home before I went to university and not after. Plus why would I move back? And I sort of have paid for my education. All my paycheques over the summer went to schooling.

But honestly. The way the BC economy is going. You can realistically pay for most of your tutition (I said most) by working the summer jobs. I mean I just saw an ad in the paper for 20 bucks an hour at mcdonalds here in Nanaimo. 20 BUCKS!!! Holy S#@! I told a friend what I saw and he told couldn't believe it.

So when the economy is this good, kids don't have an excuse honestly. That's why I'm filling out my workers permit over the weekend. So come summer I can find a job and during school I can get a job on campus for 10 to 12 an hr.

GIANT EDIT: Just got an email, I just made 20 bucks. lol sweet.

 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: 49er on Sep 25 07 09:52
SD, try getting a job that's related to your field of study........in the long run it is going to help in your post graduate interview or your job interview after graduation
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 25 07 09:58
thanks for the tip!
Hmm that could be tough got any ideas on what I should look for?
 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: purelife on Sep 26 07 10:27
GIANT EDIT: Just got an email, I just made 20 bucks. lol sweet.


You made 20bucks from an email?  Could you send it my way too?!  I want $20!!!  Heck, send me 50 of these emails for an even grand!
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 26 07 11:55
haha lol, it only took 20 minutes too! 20 bucks in 20minutes. lol

 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Michel on Sep 26 07 12:23
               
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 26 07 12:35
haha no.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: purelife on Sep 26 07 03:01
$20/20minutes.  Are you secretly a massage therapist at The Swedish Touch?
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 26 07 04:34
somebody lied, oh well its still free money. Its more like 3 dollars but I'll see in two weeks.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: wyk on Sep 27 07 01:16
Sportsdude wrote:
thanks for the tip!
Hmm that could be tough got any ideas on what I should look for?
 

 If you're gonna focus on a career in urban planning, start at the very bottom which is working for the city in their operations department.  All sorts of menial jobs there that big, sturdy laddies like you find effortless; the landscaping, cleaning up public properties, etc.  Pay is usually good like $15 an hour for students.  You'd get to spend the summer mostly outdoors.  The people that hire you will be the same sort of people you'd need connections for when it comes to graduate school applications and future careers working in city engineering departments.


 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Lil Me on Sep 27 07 07:54
(//vny!://www.kellyanncollins.com/kac-photos/2006-07/Aretha-Franklin.jpg).  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 27 07 09:50
thanks for the advice wyk, I've been trying to get a job within the geography department here. So far no luck.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: wyk on Sep 27 07 03:00
Sportsdude wrote:
thanks for the advice wyk, I've been trying to get a job within the geography department here. So far no luck.
 
    [P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"][SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: EN-CA"]Yw, also do make use of your campus career centre ([A href="vny!s://isweb.mala.bc.ca/CampusCareerCentre/main.asp?module=STUDENTS"]vny!s://isweb.mala.bc.ca/CampusCareerCentre/main.asp?module=STUDENTS[/A]).[SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"]  O[/SPAN]nce you get your student work visa (have to wait until February to apply--need to be at your college at least six months preceding the date of your work permit application--the first day of the term is the day to start from--not the day you arrived in Canada) they'll be able to get you going for a summer job if that is what you're planning.[SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"]  [/SPAN]If you're planning to go back to Missouri and work for the summer, the work visa will really help when you return in September.[SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"]  [/SPAN][?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /][o:p][/o:p][/SPAN]

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Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 27 07 10:01
yeah I know about the tax thing, the USA is like the herpes virus. Gift that keeps on giving. Except I've got a cure, but that's down the road a bit.

Can't do cafeteria work, culinary arts program does everything and makes fancy food and makes you pay an arm and a leg for it.

I'm in short supply of cash. But I'll be fine. I've got away to make some money but I'll find an on campus job.
 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: wyk on Sep 27 07 10:12
Sportsdude wrote:
...Can't do cafeteria work, culinary arts program does everything and makes fancy food and makes you pay an arm and a leg for it...

 
 Really?  They clear the tables and wash the dishes too? Interesting, but a bummer too as campus food services is always a sure bet to get a student job.
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 27 07 10:36
yeah. And then they fix viel and lamb for 10 bucks.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Michel on Sep 27 07 10:40
       
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 28 07 09:44
yeah they have sushi all the time, lamb, veil, etc.  
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: wyk on Sep 29 07 12:46
Sportsdude wrote:
yeah. And then they fix [FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffff40"]viel [/FONT]and lamb for 10 bucks.  
  Sportsdude wrote:
yeah they have sushi all the time, lamb, [FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffff40"]veil[/FONT], etc.
 
   Do you mean veal (i.e., baby cow)?  Now that's fancy.  What do the animal activists on campus have to say about food from calves and lambs?

 
Title: Re: RESP
Post by: Sportsdude on Sep 29 07 01:25
yeah veal.
crazy i know.
dunno. nobody's said anything.
I never eat meat there anyway. End up getting a salad which still ends up 8 bucks (calculated by weight).