How do you get the girl you like? What's a good way to get her attention without me appearing like a pervert?
I have no idea, considering I've never had a gf. lol
But then again I've never really tried.
But if I did, I'd have to really start to get to know the person. Talk to her a lot for about a week and then on the thursday say "hey you want to go for some coffee or something after school on friday?" or something like that. Make it really really easy, just talk. Anyway that's how I'd do it.
Hey [span style="text-decoration: line-through;"]Marik[/span]. Mark.
We hope that she's single? It helps that she is, makes it easier for you. May I ask where do you know this girl? Is she in your class? At work? In the library?
Depending on where you're at and where she is at, I'd start with a smile and a hello. That would be my first step. Remember, when you do talk to her, ask her questions about herself. Girls LOVE (with a passion) to talk about themselves. Plus, it's a great way to get to know the girl. Ask her questions about herself, talk about common "easy" topics like the weather or the location of where you're at. ie, school, you could talk about how so-and-so teacher is or how the subject is easy or difficult.
I hope this helps, but do tell us more so that I can give you a more specific help than a general answer. :)
lol purelife, that's MARK, not MARIK...
Check out this site dude:
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Hope it helps ... lots of articles on there. Good luck!
"I don't get all the women that I want...I get all the women that want me!" - David Lee Roth
Son,
It's not you, it's them. Trust me - if they want you, they'll let you know. I'm sure that Diamond Dave and Van Halen were before your time, but this should give you something to think about:
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P.S. Just because I'm feeling a little nostalgic right now, I'm going to throw in another gem from Diamond Dave (pun intended):
"Trouble with dreams is, a lot of them come true. By the time they do, you've turned into somebody else. That's what happens with time...It's always been important to me, that my dream come true, when I wanted."
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Now go outside and get some fresh air before supper - assuming that you've finished all of your homework.
hee hee...my mistake. I thought it said Marik...
I guess that I've been thinking about you... (//forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/4.gif)
That's a toughy Mark. I don't know if I missed something, but it seems we're all assuming you are in school ???
Confidence without ego. Friendliness without seduction. Good humour without buffoonery.
Good manners still count as does sincerity. Just some thoughts....good luck, Mark. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/froehlich/c020.gif" border=0]
How about opening your mouth and saying 'hi', eh? Nothing venture, nothing gain.
I'm still in highschool, in my senior year. She's like the hottest and most popular girl at my school. She just broke up with her boyfriend recently. A friend of mine heard from someone that she's on the rebound, looking for love. I want to be that rebound love, yeah, I know it's not gonna be permanent... a guy like me and a chick like her, we're not gonna last. All I want is to kiss her, you know, be the guy she can, like, crash to, even if it's just a little while.
I'm not bad looking nor am I one of the popular crowd but I do hold out on my own. I'm supershy... I just wanna be loved.........is that too much to ask?
How do you, like, approach her? She's always in her group of hens.
Classic......all the women here are giving you advice to get to know the girl and all you want is get to second base.
With that kind of attitude, Mark, I think you're better off finding a hole in a wood somewhere and pinning her picture to it. Have you no respect, dude??
Classic......all the women here are giving you advice to get to know the girl and all you want is get to second base.
I thought it was good advice. If you can't get to first base, second base is pretty much out of the question. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/froehlich/c020.gif" border=0][/DIV]
Mark figured he is getting a walk to first....(remember she's on a rebound) (//vny!://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/5.gif)
If she has any shred of decency, she wouldn't touch "Mark" with a long pole.
What is it with guys and getting to second base? As if he'd scored any chance with her being shy and all. Is that all you ever think about, Mark?
Hmmm.....I thought that was 49'er that was looking toward 2nd base. I thought Mark sounded like a half decent guy.
*tell me I'm right Mark. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/more/bigs/c008.gif" border=0]
In defense of Mark.........all hot blooded high school males think this way
Dear Mark:
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[P align=justify]I want to express our sincere appreciation for your interest in attempting to engage in relations with the Alpha Hen.
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[P align=justify]Sincerely,
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[P align=justify]The Hens
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He's in HS. I actually see nothing wrong with what he's asking for? He's lusting after a girl? Dreaming about being wiht her.. whats wrong wiht that? He admits it.
Did I miss something?
He's also realistic, probably not going to last, this is in HS. I cant count how many relationships Ive been in, some you go into thinking uh maybe, some you go in thinking wow this is the one. Its all experience.
<but this is the one!! for me>
Go into it impishly dude. Dont open all up on her the first time you talk to her with your life story, get her interest piqued then get a bit distant. You do that you get her curiousity. Remember if you show what you want.. they can sence it.
high school relationships are so emo. But as a young grass hopper I figured out the only point of high school relationships is sex. The girls want sex so they go with the bad boys and toss the good guys a side. (As seen in my high school days when everyone wanted to hook up with the druggie because he was 'cool').
LOL. Nicely put, Hens. (//vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/midi/froehlich/a036.gif)
Yeah man high school relationships never last. If she agrees to use you as the rebound guy, she's going to dump you once she finds some other dude (unless if you get dumped first).
But hey, what do I know?
it sounds like all he hopes for is being the temporary rebound guy.
Lil Me wrote:
it sounds like all he hopes for is being the temporary rebound guy.
cuz those teen hormones are on over drive.
All I'm asking is to be the guy she wants to cry her out on. Is that so bad? Like I'm not going to dump her..... she can do the dumpin on me. I can be her knight, pick her up, make her feel better cause I'm a man... you know, I can show her how to let it out. I don't mind if she, like, want to use me..... geez, you don't know me at all. I can be sensitive to a girl's feelings. I ain't gonna treat her like those jerks who hang around her.... I'm sweet, sincere, cool but I don't get notice.
If this was a movie, you'd just happen to be there when she drops her books, forgets her coat, or doesn't have enough change to buy a pop.
Good luck with the girl. You're a sweet guy.
Thank you. I try to be. I'm just shy, don't get much luck hanging around chicks. I even hang around the library, hoping she would drop her books and I go pick them up for her. I'll keep an eye out for the opportunity. I just have to dig into myself and get the courage to talk to her instead of thinking how I'm going to screw up.
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hello over here @ ds
*waving* Hi!
All I'm asking is to be the guy she wants to cry her out on. Is that so bad? Like I'm not going to dump her..... she can do the dumpin on me. I can be her knight, pick her up, make her feel better cause I'm a man... you know, I can show her how to let it out. I don't mind if she, like, want to use me..... geez, you don't know me at all. I can be sensitive to a girl's feelings. I ain't gonna treat her like those jerks who hang around her.... I'm sweet, sincere, cool but I don't get notice.
You DO sound like a nice guy Mark....and your heart sounds like it's in the right place.
I'd give some thought to why you think it's OK to 'offer yourself up' as a doormat though.
I think there'd be little satisfaction in 'getting' the girl when it's based on being used.
Maybe rethink what it is about this girl that would allow you to treat yourself with disrespect. You 'SOUND' like you're worth more than that.
*the white knight syndrome often means you're lacking something within yourself. It also paints a nice target on your heart for needy girls. Perhaps work on your confidence a little, and girls will want more from you than a stopover between guys.[/DIV]
You obviously have no game. Even with my bad back...well, just take a look for yourself:
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