Which qualities do you find most attractive in another person?
Mine would probably be: kindness, vulnerability, gentleness, shyness (but NOT timidity), integrity, self-respect, an appreciation of the ridiculous and open-mindedness.
kind, sensitive, nice, caring when you're down, knowledgable, good person, being there for me.
In a partner, Gopher?
(not in this order)
understanding, caring, fun, sensitive, affectionate, romantic, and all time "cool," charming, charismatic, gentle, kind, generous
Here's my question:
What attracts you physically to the opposite sex?
(you know, these questions would be perfect in my Q&A topic... (//forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/12.gif) ) LOL.
purelife wrote:
[SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"]What attracts you physically to the opposite sex?[/SPAN]
(you know, these questions would be perfect in my Q&A topic... (//forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/12.gif) ) LOL.
Everything I said mainly.
Normal people not materialistic and plastic bots of a personality. I want real whatever that is.
I meant outter appearance, you know, the eyes, noes, smile, teeth, etc. Unless guys don't care about that anymore?
purelife wrote:
I meant outter appearance, you know, the eyes, noes, smile, teeth, etc. Unless guys don't care about that anymore?
LOL.
I like cute looking more then uber super model look. I don't like to classify women because then I sound like I'm a person ordering a car with all the things I want and not want. Basically I fall in love with girls I just fall in love with. I'm probably not a serial dater.
A biggie for me, is a sense of humour ....witty is wonderful too. Integrity is high on the list. Compassion. The 'live and let live' type....but from a place of understanding people, rather than a laid-back 'whatever' approach.
Confidence. I always admire people who are as comfortable talking to a toddler as they are to someone in their 90's.
In no order: cute smile, nice face/body, but no blondes. Call me crazy, but I just can't like girls with blonde hair... maybe it has something to do with me being a halfer... and I keep thinking blondes are bimbos (yes I know stereotyping is bad), which turns me off. Cheerful, makes me laugh, can carry on a meaningful conversation, and a nice voice, because if you get into an argument, it is better to listen to a pleasant voice rather than a horrible one.
Damn, I sound like I'm ordering a car like what Sportsdude said.
*cry*
lol P.C's a blondie
*sniff sniff*
Yes, she is. [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/frech/n080.gif" border=0]
That's OK....I never thought of 'Personal Qualities' as having anything to do with hair colour.[img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/traurig/a025.gif" border=0]
lol
i don't mind blondes but I don't like fake ones who die there hair to be blonde. ughhh
Whoops sorry P.C. I should be careful about that. Fake blondes... yeah I can't stand them either. Even Japan has their own version of them! vny!://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ganguro
P.C. wrote:
[div style="font-style: italic;"]*sniff sniff*[/div] Yes, she is. [img style="cursor: pointer; font-style: italic;" onclick="url(this.src);" src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/frech/n080.gif[/img]
Don't be sad, P.C., you know I still love ya. (//forums/richedit/smileys/Love/2.gif)
(Probably better not tell your husband, though...)
purelife wrote:
[SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"]What attracts you physically to the opposite sex?[/SPAN]
Pale blue eyes.
TehBorken: Don't be sad, P.C., you know I still love ya. (//vny!://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Love/2.gif)
Awww, thanks TehBorken. I feel much better now that I know my personal qualities are OK with some. (teehee) [img style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick=url(this.src); src="vny!://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/liebe/d042.gif[/img]
I do like a girl with a fun, outgoing personality. But, I think it all comes down to breast size and a cute tush...
(just kidding, not really that shallow...)