Does the average, well-homed cat expect and receive more loving that its owner?
And what is the purpose of asking this question?
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It probably does. Depends on the personality of the cat. A feral once appointed me to be its caretaker, and could be quite affectionate to me. If she initiated it, she demanded affection and wouldln't take no for an answer. But she'd get annoyed if I tried to pet her without first being called upon to do so. She was downright hostile towards other people -- especially females. Come to think of it, she was a lot like one of my past girlfriends.
This question demands a lot of thought. I'm waiting for kittten's guidance on the matter!
Yes, the average cat does expect a lot of love and attention. Cats are not always outwardly loving to their people, but usually the person looking after them can expect an affectionate rub of the chin or a greeting at the door. A well-loved cat will purr a lot which is also a sign of contentment and affection. On the whole you can't expect as much love as you give, but rest assured that it is there, otherwise the cat would run away if it has half a chance.