I think that understanding something like that is tough if you're not in the situation.
One of my best friends got pregnant after dating a guy for 3 months. She quickly realized that he was not a good guy at all when he told her that if she didn't get an abortion he'd never talk to her again. He went back and forth and played all kinds of head games with her. He was incredibly nasty and showed a side that was scary.
She finally pretended to get an abortion and he wanted to make an appointment at a clinic to make sure that she wasn't pregnant. He picked the clinic and the two of them saw the doctor together. The doctor gave her a cup and she went into the bathroom and closed the door. She went to the bathroom and instead of pee-ing in the cup, she got the cup of pee that her sister had given to her 20 minutes earlier and put that in the cup. Obviously the test came out negative.
They never saw each other again after that. She had the baby a couple of years ago and is a single mom. The father lives downtown, and she lives in Cloverdale so they wouldn't run into each other. I ran into him once when I was in Vancouver and he made some nasty comments about her and I think that in this circumstance the child is far better off
without him.
My girlfriend is engaged to a guy that is awesome. He's a firefighter and has even taken my friends little boy to the firehall to sit in the fire truck. Great guy and a great dad.
One of my best friends got pregnant after dating a guy for 3 months. She quickly realized that he was not a good guy at all when he told her that if she didn't get an abortion he'd never talk to her again. He went back and forth and played all kinds of head games with her. He was incredibly nasty and showed a side that was scary.
She finally pretended to get an abortion and he wanted to make an appointment at a clinic to make sure that she wasn't pregnant. He picked the clinic and the two of them saw the doctor together. The doctor gave her a cup and she went into the bathroom and closed the door. She went to the bathroom and instead of pee-ing in the cup, she got the cup of pee that her sister had given to her 20 minutes earlier and put that in the cup. Obviously the test came out negative.
They never saw each other again after that. She had the baby a couple of years ago and is a single mom. The father lives downtown, and she lives in Cloverdale so they wouldn't run into each other. I ran into him once when I was in Vancouver and he made some nasty comments about her and I think that in this circumstance the child is far better off
without him.
My girlfriend is engaged to a guy that is awesome. He's a firefighter and has even taken my friends little boy to the firehall to sit in the fire truck. Great guy and a great dad.
