It sounds like the both of you live in separate worlds. You would think that someone who came from nothing then worked their way into wealth would understand these things that some of us non-rich folks do. Saving money, eating in and cleaning our homes are just some examples.
Speaking of saving money, have you watched that Extreme Coupon show? Lucky Americans have a better coupon system and they get better deals than us. There is no way that we could get $1,000 worth of products for next to nothing. And the nice thing there is that tellers can scan the coupons, here, tellers manually enter the amount as manufacturer coupon and then some have to note the price of product on coupon.