Orik wrote:
some men disgust me.. I admit I am a bit of a bastard but sheesh, I have storm raged and yelled at my ex wife. But I never hit her. Hell she stormed raged and yelled right back at me, thats normal in some relationships a bit of a storm is good and the[span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"] make up sex can be pretty wild [/span]=)
I think everyone can agree with that. I was just telling someone that I still have sex with my partner even when I'm mad. Well I would have still have sex with him if he were willing. But he isn't. So I have to wait til he gets over it.
However on a few occasions she struck me. now don't get me wrong I have no problem being yelled at, particularly if I have been a prick or done some wrong, I can even handle being slapped if I had done something particularity reprehensible. Some women wonder why a man would strike them. I know I was sorely tempted once. coming home from work your wife ( common law I admit) in the arms of another man beneath my roof. Well I saw red I damn near killed him (so much for a best friend) as for her well I never touched her, but I must admit I was sorely tempted to slap the shit out of her...
I went out for a few hours, I had a few drinks it was late when I came home he was gone & she had cleaned up the blood and the remnants of the bedroom were put back together I came home realising it's my house.I packed her things and said it is time you went home to mothers threw her out. literally. I closed the door & sadly I have been single since.
That's so sad. I'm so sorry. Just wondering, was the drinking an issue for her? Was the time you spent out drinking time she resented and saw as time you could have spent with her?
For good or bad, you never know what a relationship holds till you are in one... But sometimes you see it before it begins, consider yourself lucky Natasha.
Yes sir. I was lucky on that one relationship. Not so lucky with another. But I did eventually leave (and stayed gone) so I consider myself blessed to be alive.