I dunno. It could be a lot of things, but I think it's always been like this, I don't think it's just a 21st century thing. A lot of people around my neck of the woods talk about the 'Gold Age' aka 50s. Usually they're talking about staunch moralistic society with TV shows like "Father Knows Best" etc. Have you looked at a Time magazine from the 50s? It's sexist, with sexist ads, women were confined to suburban homes, many had depression with these new suburbs popping up away from the city.
Anyway I think we haven't lost our minds, it's more of a media manipulation since they have become the be all end all. I've said before, I watched the news for a week, when I first came to Canada. The sky is falling, everything is falling apart sensationalism from them made me afraid to leave the dorm, in Canada, freaking safest place I've ever seen.
On the government thing, yeah that's typical. People want government out of their lives, yet they want government to help them. Cake and eat it too.
Anyway, what's got you going P.C.?