Being born in a country or a place doesn't make you who you are. I wasn't born American. Being American is something like in every other culture (like being Canadian, German, British etc) is learned through time. As a prominent journalist here in the states has written a book about the downfall of America. He considers himself an American, because he wasn't born in America, he chose to live in the US. He was interviewed a Fox News personality who accused him of being a traitor for writing a book about the coming end of the US empire. That's what his respone was that being American is something you chose to be.
I have the utmost respect for my grandparents. They chose to live here. Do they consider themselves Hungarians or Germans? No. Even though they were born in that country.
Being born in America doesn't make me American. Its a choice and its a culture that you learn. I don't consider myself American based on these principals and anyone who says 'but you were born in America' is just playing off of the idea of identification through nationalism.
No...being born in a country or place doesn't make you who you are. Character makes you who you are. But being born in a country or place DOES establish your nationality. You don't have to like it, but it is so. You are suggesting that I could decide to call myself Norwegian.....just because I might want it to be so.....but it doesn't make it so. The prominent journalist can call himself whatever he chooses....as can I, as can you.....that doesn't change what's real.
Being born in America DOES make you American. It's not about choice or culture....it simply defines the nation in which you were born.