How to get the girl?

Started by Mark, Mar 04 07 10:37

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49er

In defense of Mark.........all hot blooded high school males think this way  

The Hens

Dear Mark:

 [P align=justify]Thank you for submitting your application for consideration as the rebound guy.  The interview process for the position has been completed and we regret to inform you that another candidate has been selected for this position.  We were very fortunate to have a number of very qualified candidates for this position.  Although we regret that we did not personally contact you for an interview, please keep in mind that any eligible heterosexual female evaluates your candidacy within 3 seconds of meeting you to avoid any potential embarrassment in the future.  So stop worrying about your next tactical move - don't call us...we'll call you!

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 [P align=justify]I want to express our sincere appreciation for your interest in attempting to engage in relations with the Alpha Hen.

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 [P align=justify]Sincerely,

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 [P align=justify]The Hens

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Russ

He's in HS. I actually see nothing wrong with what he's asking for? He's lusting after a girl? Dreaming about being wiht her.. whats wrong wiht that? He admits it.

Did I miss something?

He's also realistic, probably not going to last, this is in HS. I cant count how many relationships Ive been in, some you go into thinking uh maybe, some you go in thinking wow this is the one. Its all experience.

<but this is the one!! for me>

        Go into it impishly dude. Dont open all up on her the first time you talk to her with your life story, get her interest piqued then get a bit distant. You do that you get her curiousity. Remember if you show what you want.. they can sence it.
Mercy to the Guilty is Torture to the Victims

Sportsdude

high school relationships are so emo.  But as a young grass hopper I figured out the only point of high school relationships is sex.  The girls want sex so they go with the bad boys and toss the good guys a side.  (As seen in my high school days when everyone wanted to hook up with the druggie because he was 'cool').    
"We can't stop here. This is bat country."

Lise

LOL. Nicely put, Hens.
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Bill Cosby.

Marik

Yeah man high school relationships never last. If she agrees to use you as the rebound guy, she's going to dump you once she finds some other dude (unless if you get dumped first).
But hey, what do I know?
 

Lil Me

it sounds like all he hopes for is being the temporary rebound guy.
 
 
 
   
"In the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily trivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it."  Robert Heinlein

Sportsdude

  Lil Me wrote:
it sounds like all he hopes for is being the temporary rebound guy.
 

cuz those teen hormones are on over drive.



 
 
   
 
"We can't stop here. This is bat country."

Mark

All I'm asking is to be the guy she wants to cry her out on. Is that so bad? Like I'm not going to dump her..... she can do the dumpin on me. I can be her knight, pick her up, make her feel better cause I'm a man... you know, I can show her how to let it out. I don't mind if she, like, want to use me..... geez, you don't know me at all. I can be sensitive to a girl's feelings. I ain't gonna treat her like those jerks who hang around her.... I'm sweet, sincere, cool but I don't get notice.

Lil Me

If this was a movie, you'd just happen to be there when she drops her books, forgets her coat, or doesn't have enough change to buy a pop.
 
 Good luck with the girl.  You're a sweet guy.
   
"In the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily trivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it."  Robert Heinlein

Mark

Thank you. I try to be. I'm just shy, don't get much luck hanging around chicks. I even hang around the library, hoping she would drop her books and I go pick them up for her. I'll keep an eye out for the opportunity. I just have to dig into myself and get the courage to talk to her instead of thinking how I'm going to screw up.

Lil Me

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"In the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily trivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it."  Robert Heinlein

glasgogirl

hello over here @ ds  

Lil Me

"In the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily trivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it."  Robert Heinlein

P.C.

 All I'm asking is to be the guy she wants to cry her out on. Is that so bad? Like I'm not going to dump her..... she can do the dumpin on me. I can be her knight, pick her up, make her feel better cause I'm a man... you know, I can show her how to let it out. I don't mind if she, like, want to use me..... geez, you don't know me at all. I can be sensitive to a girl's feelings. I ain't gonna treat her like those jerks who hang around her.... I'm sweet, sincere, cool but I don't get notice.

  You DO sound like a nice guy Mark....and your heart sounds like it's in the right place.

I'd give some thought to why you think it's OK to 'offer yourself up' as a doormat though.

I think there'd be little satisfaction in 'getting' the girl when it's based on being used.

  Maybe rethink what it is about this girl that would allow you to treat yourself with disrespect.  You 'SOUND' like you're worth more than that.

  *the white knight syndrome often means you're lacking something within yourself.  It also paints a nice target on your heart for needy girls. Perhaps work on your confidence a little, and girls will want more from you than a stopover between guys.[/DIV]
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