Those damn cute female servers...

[purelife]

Lise wrote:
Yeah............. pretty darn intelligent to be working in places that ppl degrade and humilate you base of your looks.



I guess it's a matter of choice and what standards you set yourself.  

 Some girls are pretty tough and can take that kind of "talk."  Did you hear about the female cop who was found prostituting in the evening for extra dollars?  It's not that easy to make quick cash these days and while it is extremely sad that some have to resort to such measures, I can understand the hardships and the temptations that are given to a female.  Sex will always sell.  And money talks.

 
 

 

[Sportsdude]

A girl in my class a while ago dropped out with 2 weeks left in the school year and now is a stripper on the east side.

[TehBorken]

 Some Chick wrote:
If I dress up, I'm asking for it?

Nope, the only thing that you could be seen as "asking for" is eyeballs. No manner of dress (or undress) is an excuse for unwanted physical contact, period.

 

[Some Chick]

Right now I subscribe to the belief "It is better to be looked over than overlooked."

  I'll be invisible one day, I'm not in a rush.

[TehBorken]

  Some Chick wrote:
I dressed to look my best.  Did that mean that I had to accept poor behaviour from men that could not keep their libido in check?

They were a bunch of crude a**holes for certain, but poor behaviour is, unfortunately, part of the territory in that kind of setting. It's not right, but it's unrealistic (in my opinion) not to expect it to happen. Buffoons are everywhere and they tend to act out in public (which is half the reason they go out at all- so others can "share" in their offensive and obnoxious behaviour).
 

[Lise]

Well... I guess I never understand why a woman would make herself look so tempting then get offended when someone makes crude remarks at her. I know some men are jerks for doing so but I mean, c'mon........... you're definitely asking for it. (no offense to Some Chick - I think you're hawt just reading your comments )

  I guess I was always brought up to dress a little more conservatively. Less to me, is always more beautiful.

[Some Chick]

My feeling is that there's no reason for the crude remarks.  However, if you are going to make yourself attractive, you definitely have to be prepared for the attention.

  I'm fairly conservative in my dress, but I still sometimes like to make myself up even just to boost my own ego for a bit.

  By the way, Lise, one of the most gorgeous pictures ever of me was taken when I was 7 months pregnant.  It was Christmas and I'd done my hair and makeup, was in a red dress and we were over at my parents' house.  I had only just then decided that my boyfriend and I were going to keep the baby, so the house was celebrating.  I look back on that photo and just shake my head remembering how self concious and unhappy being pregnant I was.  

  When you're pregnant, your skin and hair are in the best shape they will be.  

  Enjoy it  

[Lise]

HAH! Yeah, right, Some Chick. You're lucky if you have all those. To be honest, I'm not in the best of shape which is why I'm probably lashing out at all those skinny prettier gals.

  Oh well... can't be too negative about being fat right this moment. Gotta think pretty thoughts.

  But thanks for your most positive comments.

[kingy]

some girls look smoking hawt in sweatpants and t-shirt with a ball cap.