Hey, I'll throw in my two cents, even though this topic appeared on DV recently and I wouldn't be surprised if one or two of the posters here may have been involved in that discussion.
Before I was married I dated a French guy who had a couple of powder-pink shirts and pullovers--and he looked positively hot in them. He had a good eye for colour and what suited him, and it so happened that pink was one of those colours. It pains me that so many heterosexual men from North America and the British Isles have such a phobia around that colour. I think it's positively silly.
Oh, and I never "dressed" him. First, I hate to shop. Second, this guy obviously needed no help. In fact, he gave me some good European-style fashion tips over the course of our relationship. If that made him gay, then all I can say is that he was one gay man who had a huge appetite for at least one curvy woman with a penchant for wearing skirts.
I'm a woman who looks good in both pink and blue. When I wear a powder-blue shirt, does that mean I'm a lesbian, just because blue is a colour for baby boys?
People should go for what looks good on them, no matter what the "fashionistas" and the insecure homophobes maintain.