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Title: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 12:44
Hey! This thread isn't going to be that intresting, It's a question about a guy. So those who don't care leave now.............If your still here I am obsessed and want advice. I really like this guy, for about 4 years now. I think he likes me but I am not sure. He is very shy but he made up a little nickname for me, always teasing, not mean like. We don't have friends in common so we only see each other at school and talk every now and again.  Anyway! I recently dyed my hair and when we were in class he told me my hair looked really nice.!^^^^ Is that a sign that he likes me.? That was one of the real first nice things he's ever said to me. He usually teases. He doesn't talk to any other girl like that, that I notice. Anyone with comments would help me. If not i am just obsessed and had to rant about this. Lol.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Sportsdude on Apr 04 06 12:48
I usually act like that towards women I like due to the fact that I'm shy. Yes he likes you and its probly killing him.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 12:50
Thanks!^^^^^ I hope so too.! Thanks for your comment. I am so happy today!
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: TehBorken on Apr 04 06 12:55
   Yuki wrote:
Is that a sign that he likes me.?

Unless the Universe has turned inside-out, I'd say "Hell yes".

As Sportsdude said, "Yes he likes you and its probly killing him."  I totally agree. He probably likes you a whole lot more than you realize, and for "probably" you can substitute "almost certainly".  (//forums/richedit/smileys/Happy/14.gif)

Basically, ladies, the rule of thumb is, if he's interacting with you at all, he probably wants  to date you, lol. Am I right, gentlemen?
 
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 12:58
Great.!!!^^ I think sence most guys say it is a sign that I might ask him out. ^^^^^^^^^^^^
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Sportsdude on Apr 04 06 01:00
"Basically, ladies, the rule of thumb is, if he's interacting with you at all, he probably wants  to date you, lol. Am I right, gentlemen? "


Duh.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:02
I would say YES! He likes you...so ask him for coffee, if he is shy you will have to make the first move...so have fun and go for it...! (http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Happy/3.gif)
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 01:06
Thanks. The ony problem is I don't think he'd admit he liked me infront of his friends. He trys to put on a tough guy image. After he said that nice thing about my hair he was all shy and walked over by his friends. Any ideas of how I can get him away from his friends to ask him.?
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:10
ohhhh I have to think about this for a minute....ok (this sounds silly) what about making eye contact and smiling at him...is he always with his friends???
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 01:12
I think he looks at me. Lol I am too shy to look his way. Everytime I look at him I smile or blush. When he looks at me, I think he kinda looks away alot. Like look at me, look off, look at me. He smiles alot and I think he blushes.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:18
Ok well lets start with a little teasing back (trust me guys like this) I think hahahah Guys what do you say about this???? I was in the same spot a while ago...(remember guys you helped me through it) I bit the bullet and asked him out...it worked...so we have to work our magic with this guy......
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 01:30
Thanks. I do tease him back, alot. I have always been extra mean to the guys I like. Lol, sadly. I am trying to fix that.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:33
some guys like it...heheheh I think that you have to make the move and ask him out..just for coffee
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: tenkani on Apr 04 06 01:34
Life is short. Sorry for the cliche, but we're all like ships passing in the night. You have an opportunity, who knows for how long. You really can't count on people remaining in your sphere. If you want to move your relationship to the next level, and you think he might like you, be proactive. You aren't exactly friends at this point, so you don't have a whole lot to lose. Good luck, Yuki     (http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Happy/21.gif)  
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:40
tenk that is so true...!!!!
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 01:41
Thanks cutezz, I think I will try your advice. Thanks tenkani you know I love you.!^^
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 01:58
No you to love Mr X not tenk...hehehehehh so go for it...you only live once and what if someone eles gets their paws on him...(http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Happy/20.gif)
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 01:59
If someone eles tries to go after my Adam, it's fighttime.(http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/19.gif)  Lol. Joking.!
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 02:01
ohhh Mr X has a name...and good for you...fight for him...ok well get him first...heheheh, do you see him everyday?
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 04 06 02:02
Not everyday. WE have one class togeather. We both miss alot of school, it seems like every day he's there I'm home and everytime I'm home he's at school..... I am trying to go more so I can see him. I just have to get a good excuse to talk to him. Like maybe ask for help in the class=D
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: tenkani on Apr 04 06 02:51
"No you to love Mr X not tenk"

  Don't worry, she loves me like a crazy alcoholic uncle, not like a boyfriend     (http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Teasing/5.gif)

Besides, I pity the people who's hearts are so small they can only love one person.

  Thread needs more group hug.

(http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Happy/3.gif)
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 03:03
[FONT face="Comic Sans MS"]Group Hug....(http://discoverseattle.net/forums/richedit/smileys/Love/23.gif) [/FONT]
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: tenkani on Apr 04 06 03:07
[FONT face="Times New Roman" color=#2d2d2d size=4]CUDDLE ATTACK!!!1[/FONT]

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Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 04 06 03:13
Hey tenk you come up with the nicest pics...you ol softy you...hehehehe
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Future Canadian on Apr 04 06 07:18
Speaking for shy guys, I second the you-should-ask-him-out idea. I'd bet anything he's going through the same thing you're thinking. He probably just thinks that you like him as a friend/aqcuaintance. The actions you describe are just what I've done countless times with women I've had a crush on but thought they wouldn't possibly like a big dumb guy like me.
Go for it! This is what life's all about. Plus it's springtime.
 
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 05 06 07:29
Thanks! Well it seem most people think It is a sign. This helps me alot. Lol, True I don't love tenkani as a boyfriend, but not crazy uncle. Lol. More of a wise, nice uncle who I look up too!^^^^
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 06 06 08:06
Yuki have you talked to the 'sweetie pie' yet????
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Schadenfreude on Apr 06 06 08:33
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v307/shirase/slap.gif)

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Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 06 06 10:45
That is the way to do it...some guys just don't get it...heheheh
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 06 06 11:45
Hey. um Sadly he did not talk to me today=C. I was going to talk to him but the teacher kept talking the whole class and wouldn't shut up. I had no time. BUt tomorrow I have a Adam class too.=D
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 06 06 11:54
Great, this is the time...don't think about it...or you wont do it...just walk up to him and say ... we should go for coffee...my treat..well maybe it should be your treat to make up for the teasing you do...hehehe
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 06 06 12:03
Thanks. Lol I will try my best to not shy away. Yes I am gonna talk to him tomorrow!^^^^  Thank you for the encouragement.
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: cutezz on Apr 06 06 12:16
You will be fine, sometimes guys just need a little push or shove...heheheh Just remember what tenk said, you have nothing to lose...only gain...
Title: Re: Is he flirting.?
Post by: Yuki on Apr 06 06 12:23
Thanks.^^^^ I'll be sure to post my results.^^^^